There aren’t words to describe my passion for raising our boys. Everyday is different, and still some things remain the same. Like how I tell his big brother over and over to be kind to your little brother. Today I literally said out loud, “Do not use your body to get what you want!” Said that after a common selfish toy issue. Then in my head I thought so very loudly: don’t ever ever use your body to get what you want. Not now. Not when you’re 16, 22 or 57. Never. If there is one thing I desire deeply for my boys it is this: to act in truth and love and to intelligently communicate their feelings without ever feeling the need to have power over any person. Raising people is a big deal.